The cost of conflict to organisations was estimated at £2.85 billion which, averaged out across employees, equates to more than £1,000 each. Close to 10 million people experienced conflict at work. Of those, over half suffered stress, anxiety and depression as a result, just under 900,000 took time off work, nearly half a million resigned and more than 300,000 employees were dismissed.
This analysis was based on 2018-19, impacted by #MeToo and BLM, but pre COVID, which has further changed the landscape of work and employee expectations, as socio-political aspects of society that impact the workplace. It is anticipated that the cost of living crisis and summer of discontent will also impact more localised conflict. There is a growing demand for a restorative justice approach. This is where workplace mediation is most useful - as an informal and early intervention, with a no blame and win-win approach and ideally before the conflict becomes too entrenched and toxic.
The role of the mediator in workplace mediation is to provide confidential, impartial and non-judgemental support to all parties. The mediator will foster a safe and constructive environment with open and honest dialogue to explore issues, with an aim to encourage participants to shift away from their adopted positions. The mediator will not direct or provide solutions - they come from the participants themselves, who own the outcomes.
Mediation usually takes place over a day, with some pre-planning and information for the participants, so they know what to expect. The individuals that take part must do so willingly, otherwise mediation will not work. The individuals involved are helped to articulate what the issue is, and to be heard (each individual has uninterrupted time when they are brought together). It is an opportunity to explore feelings and needs, to share hurt, which is rare in the workplace. Everyone engages equitably. The mediator will help all parties to generate and evaluate opportunities for future working. An agreement reached at the end can be useful, although often just having the facilitated conversation can be enough to become unstuck and gain some movement and clarity.
Mediation can be used as an early intervention and an alternative to formal processes. It can be used part way through a formal process that will be paused and can also be an outcome from a formal process. It should not be used where there is a large imbalance of power, for bullying and harassment cases or where a formal disciplinary or grievance process is required.
Remember that not all conflict however is bad, conflict can be creative and help find solutions.